Obituary - Deborah Mae Wheeler
Deborah Mae Wheeler, 76, of Richmond, Virginia, born September 13, 1949 passed away May 17, 2026.
She was preceded in death by her father, Robert Miller; father, Richard Irving Wheeler; mother, Janis Miller; brothers, Rick Wheeler, Doug Wheeler, and Ralph Wheeler. Survived by her sisters, Kelly Holden (Dave), Roberta Wheeler, Theresa Wilk (Mark); brother, Stephen Wheeler (Tina); loving nieces and nephews, Morgan Currin (Luther), Brittany Hughes (Dale), Jennifer McBride (Chris), Brendon Wheeler (Ally), Emily Wheeler, Ben Wilk and Quinn Wilk; and loving great nieces and nephews, Hensley, Liam, Holden, Tate, Eliza & Addison.
Debbie graduated from Binghamton North High School in Binghamton NY. Debbie’s professional career spanned several decades, holding many managerial positions in the health care industry. She was well respected and loved by her peers.
Debbie will be remembered above all for her pure heart, her joyful spirit, and her unwavering dedication to others. She possessed a deep passion for volunteering and giving back to her community. As a proud and active member of the Kiwanis Club of Tuckahoe, she stepped into leadership to serve as the club’s President, guiding efforts to support numerous local organizations. Because helping children meant everything to her, Debbie also dedicated her time and heart to Henrico (CASA) Court Appointed Special Advocates). In this vital role, she became a powerful, compassionate advocate for children navigating the court system.
Debbie absolutely loved having fun and making memories with her family and friends. She was happiest when she was surrounded by the people she loved, whether she was out on the dance floor, listening to music, or just hanging out. A true fan of the Moody Blues and The Eagles, she loved great music, and the song “Desperado” held a special place in her heart as well as the Van Morrison song, into The Mystic.
Her days were made brighter by her love for dogs, trips to the beach, and her competitive, fun-loving nature. She was always ready for a game, whether playing cards, mastering MahJong, or managing her team in Fantasy Football.
Debbie’s boundless love was felt just as deeply at home. Her family and loved ones were her priority and she always answered the call when it mattered most –Most notably stepping forward to care for Dennis during his time of greatest need. Debbie was a legacy of selflessness, service and pure kindness will live on forever. We are eternally thankful for the blessing that is Debbie.
A Funeral service will be held at St. Stephens Episcopal Church, 140 College Street in Oxford NC on Saturday, May 23, 2026 at 1:00 p.m. Luncheon to follow. In lieu of flowers donations to your local animal shelter or St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, 140 College Street, Oxford, NC 27575. In memory of Deborah Wheeler.
