Teen takes top title
By Patty Kruszewski, Citizen Managing Editor 02/10/13
A Glen Allen teen who entered her first pageant just three years ago recently confirmed that she has a knack for winning – by capturing a regional title this past summer and a national title in November.
In August 2012, Davina Seoparsan won the title of Miss American Coed (MAC) East Coast Junior Teen. A few months later, she topped more than 50 contestants from around the nation to become Miss American Junior Teen 2013. In addition to the national title, Seoparsan won the Optional National Speech competition, was first runner-up in the talent competition, and placed third runner-up in the National Actress competition.
Since her crowning, she has been traveling around to different states, appearing at other pageants and ceremonial events. But one of her favorite roles as a pageant winner is making appearances in her own community, at celebrations such as Glen Allen Day, the Harvest Festival at Meadow Farm Museum, parades through Sandston, and Recreation and Parks events at Walkerton Tavern.
And at the recent holiday Parade of Lights on the James River, Seoparsan adds with a chuckle, she even got to play "Santa's Helper."
Appearing at so many annual events in Henrico has been especially rewarding, she says, because the "regulars" who attend become an extended family of sorts.
"Pretty much the same families come back to these events every year, so I know them," she says with a smile. Seoparsan never tires of the community events, she says – and especially loves when awestruck little girls catch sight of her and gleefully squeal, "Look – it's a princess!"
But while she admits that she originally got into pageants "to have fun," Seoparsan has since come to view the competitions more seriously, and to see them as a vehicle for promoting causes that she holds dear.
"[Pageants] are a tool," she says, "to spread awareness about things that matter."
A near-tragedy in her sophomore year at J.R. Tucker helped Seoparsan recognize an issue that matters deeply to her, and that has since become her platform as a contestant.
"[A classmate] attempted suicide," she says. "I was really good friends with her, and I didn't have any idea [she was troubled]."
Shocked that her friend had almost died and that she had been clueless about her intentions, Seoporsan chose teen depression as the topic for her end-of-year International Baccalaureate (IB) project, and decided to put together a book on the topic.
"I interviewed the girl I know and other people who attempted suicide; I also interviewed family and friends of people who committed suicide," she recalls. "I added facts [about depression] along with the stories of people who were there and recovered.
"When you read it," she said, "it makes you more aware of what's going on."
With the help of others involved in the prevention of teen suicide (including Alex Slusher, founder of Hold Hope and mother of a Freeman H.S. student who took his own life), Seoparsan is working to distribute the book to a wide audience. She has also spoken at the Out of the Darkness event at Deep Run H.S., developed a foundation and website (Together We Can Celebrate Life) and is involved with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.
Although Seoparsan has always been interested in the topic of teen depression, her friend's experience helped crystallize that interest into a passion.
A few years ago, a friend came to her with a serious problem, and she helped steer the friend to a schoolcounselor. Realizing that most teens prefer talking to friends rather than counselors, however, she formed a peer counseling group.
"Kids feel better talking to other kids," says Seoparsan. "It's a chain reaction. Once one teen is impacted, that encourages others."
Seoparsan's long-range plans include attending an Ivy League school or the University of Virginia and becoming a child advocacy lawyer and, eventually, a motivational speaker.
In the meantime, her immediate goals – after performing her duties as national titleholder – are to compete in the Miss Teen pageant (the next age group up from Junior Teen), and then to compete for the Miss Virginia title.
That's in addition to her other activities, which include serving as president of Tucker's Diversity Club, and involvement with Model UN, forensics, Kick off Mentors and the YMCA's Teen Leaders' Club.
But Seoparsan will continue to pursue pageant competitions, she says, not only for the opportunity to raise awareness for her platform, but also because she likes the challenge of dispelling ignorance about pageants.
"When I meet someone and they hear I do pageants," she says, "they'll ask, 'Are you stuck-up?'"
Negative stereotypes abound, she says, partly because of TV shows that portray too-young participants wearing "a lot of makeup – and not a lot of clothes."
"But it's not all about glitz and beauty," Seoparsan continues. "You have to interview well. [Pageant judges] look for community service. It's about how they see you grow as a person."
The oldest of three children (her brother Vinny is 12 and attends Short Pump Middle School; another brother, Dylan, is six and attends Shady Grove Elementary School), Davina has had an outgoing nature since infancy, says her mother, Nirmala. In her ability to engage easily with people of all ages and backgrounds, Nirmala points out, Davina seems to be "following in the footsteps" of her grandfather, Harry Nawbatt, who serves as Guyana's High Commissioner to Canada.
But even if genetics has played a part in her facility for interacting with others, says Davina, her pageant experiences have helped to develop that natural talent and polish her communication skills.
"You learn a lot; you gain confidence and poise," she says of the competitions. "It taught me a lot of life skills, about how to deal with people, interview, and speak in front of a group."
Seoparsan chuckles as she recalls watching the video of her crowning at the national competition sometime afterwards. "When I won," she says, "I looked confused. Startled."
But it's when she views videos from a few years ago that she really sees how far she has come.
"I look back at myself before I did pageants and go, 'Ewwwwww!'" she says with a laugh.
In a more sober vein, she notes that she is still in touch with her Tucker classmate who attempted suicide, even though her friend is studying elsewhere now.
"She changed me a lot," Seoparsan says. "[Her close call] made me a lot more serious about the topic. You never know; [depression] can happen to any one of us."
She shivers slightly as she recalls being riveted by an account her friend wrote of the night she almost took her life.
"I still read it," says Seoparsan, "and it gives me the chills."
For details about Davina Seoparsan's foundation, Together We Can Celebrate Life, visit https://sites.google.com/site/twcclife/home. For details about Hold Hope, visit http://holdhope.org.
By Amelia Heymann, Capital News Service 03/24/2017 Features
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Individuals and organizations wanting to help George F. Baker Elementary School students and staff recover from a March 19 fire at the school now have two ways to help: make a monetary donation or donate items of school supplies.
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NAEH annually recognizes proven programs and significant achievements in ending child and family homelessness.
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