By Patty Kruszewski, Citizen Managing Editor 07/28/11
Kathryne and Robert Louzek left Henrico County three decades ago, but they still think of it as home.
In the intervening years, the Stafford residents (pictured at right after their wedding in 1981 and, below, recently) have criss-crossed the country, setting up household in locations ranging from Florida and California to Georgia and Louisiana. But whenever possible, they get back to eastern Henrico to visit the many family and friends still here.
On Aug. 1, they will no doubt entertain a few of those family members and friends as they hold a cook-out to celebrate a double 30th anniversary.
Not only does the date mark 30 years of marriage, but it also marks the end of Robert's 30-year career with the Navy. After spending the last few years at the Pentagon, he will retire from military life on the day of their wedding anniversary.
On the move
Although Robert Louzek grew up in an Air Force family and did not move to Sandston until he was 13, Kathryne (also known as "Nip") grew up in Varina. Her parents ran a grocery store, “Eberly’s Place,” on Route 5 near Curles Neck Farm.
In 1970, Kathryne graduated from Varina H.S, and Robert graduated from Highland Springs H.S. Both were living and working in Henrico when they met in 1977 at a mutual friend's home in Sandston; they married four years later at Kathryne’s home in Varina.
Following graduation from college and a couple of civilian jobs, Robert joined the Navy in 1981, progressing through Officer’s Candidate School and flight school. A month after their wedding, Ensign Louzek got his first military orders, and he and his new bride plunged into the Navy way of life. In the ensuing years the couple added two children and moved around to Pensacola, Fla.; Virginia Beach; San Diego, Calif.; Kennesaw, Ga.; Monterey, Calif.; and Mandeville, La.
The nomadic life held both challenges and blessings, says Kathryn.
"Robert’s job always came first, and the rest of the family adjusted whenever he received orders to move to another command," she says. Among the challenges of being constantly uprooted were having to make regular farewells to friends, seeing extended family for only rare visits, and being apart as a family for special events.
One such special event that stands out in Kathryne's mind was the birth of their first child, Robyn, now 27. "Robert was deployed [at the time of the birth], and did not meet her until she was four months old," she says.
A return to roots
Robyn and her sister Jayne, now 23, also had to change schools often – sometimes in the middle of the year.
"When we moved, it wasn’t just across town," says Kathryne. "It was across the country." She adds that while moving in elementary school was fun for the girls, they found it harder in middle and high school; Robyn attended high school in three states, and Jayne attended high school in two.
"But both are college graduates," she says, "so all the moving did not hinder their ability to do well in school."
In addition, says Kathryne, the Louzek family has reaped a number of rewards from their frequent moves.
"We lived in really wonderful places on the East, West, and Gulf Coasts of the United States," she says. "We always found good friends wherever we lived. Our children have an appreciation of other communities that comes from living in so many different areas of the United States."
Another advantage of all the moving around, Kathryne believes, is that it helped strengthen the marriage.
"Our frequent separations from family and friends required us to rely on each other," she says, while adding that "love, humor, patience, tolerance, forgiveness . . [and] our belief that family is forever" also contributed to the longevity of the marriage.
Although the Louzeks cannot say for certain what the next step will be after Aug. 1, it's clear that more frequent visits to Henrico County are in their future.
"Even though we have been gone for 30 years, we still consider Henrico home," says Kathryne. Among the family and friends who live in eastern Henrico are Robert's mother, Jean Poole of Sandston, and Kathryne's siblings.
"Since we are only an hour and a half up [Interstate] 95, we visit often," says Kathryne. "We have a dream of one day returning to live in the area."
The Varina Ruritan Club hosted the winners of its 2014 Environmental Essay contest at its monthly meeting March 11 in Varina.
The contest, in its eighth year, was for the first time open to students in grades 3-5 at Varina Elementary School. (It previously was open to Sandston Elementary School students.)
The meeting included the winners, parents of the winners, Varina Elementary principal Mark Tyler and several teachers who were in charge of the contest at the school. > Read more.
For the fifth consecutive year, St. Christopher’s and Benedictine will play a varsity baseball game at Glen Allen's RF&P Park as part of a fundraising effort for the River City Buddy Ball program.
The game will take place Saturday, April 12, at 7 p.m., and the teams hope to raise $3,000 through donations, raffles and other efforts. Admission to the game is free, but fans who attend are asked to donate funds for the Glen Allen Youth Athletic Association's Buddy Ball program, which enables disabled children and teens to play baseball. > Read more.
The Henrico Division of Recreation and Parks will dedicate the Highland Springs Little League Majors Field in memory and honor of Rev. Robert “Bob” L. Spears, Jr., on April 12 with a ceremony at the field at 8 a.m.
Spears served the league as a coach and volunteer for 30 years and was praised as a pioneer for equality. His “Finish strong” motto embodied ethical perseverance on the field and in life. > Read more.
Do the Bunny Hop over to Meadow Farm on Saturday for an introduction to all the farm animals there! An introduction to “Global Sounds” – featuring Japanese, Indonesian, West African, Indian, and Brazilian music and dance performances – can be found at the University of Richmond. The University of Richmond will also host the annual Spider spring game, as well as the inaugural Spiders Easter Egg Hunt. For all our top picks this weekend, click here! > Read more.
Find out how your favorite dining establishments fared during their most recent inspections by the Virginia Department of Health. > Read more.
‘Muppets Most Wanted’ worthy of its franchise
Do Muppets sleep? It’s hard to say.
They don’t really eat (or breathe, as far as anyone can tell). And only occasionally do they have visible, functioning legs.
As far as anyone knows, sleeping might be off the table. And that makes it very hard to accuse the Muppets of sleepwalking through their latest feature, Muppets Most Wanted – even if that’s exactly what’s going on.
Jim Henson’s beloved creations were back in a big way after 2011’s The Muppets, with fame and fortune and even an Oscar, a first for the group (“Rainbow Connection” was nominated, yet somehow failed to collect at the ’79 ceremony). > Read more.
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